Saturday, April 9, 2011

Rhode Island Child Support

R.I. high court: When figuring child support, all finances are in play

01:00 AM EDT on Sunday, April 10, 2011

By Tracy Breton

Journal Staff Writer

PROVIDENCE — In an opinion in which it excoriates the conduct of one of the state’s longest-serving jurists, the Rhode Island Supreme Court has ruled that a parent’s entire income — not just what is taxed by the Internal Revenue Service — must be included when figuring how much a parent should have to pay in child-support.

The court, in a unanimous decision, ruled that Family Court General Magistrate John J. O’Brien Jr. erred in excluding military entitlements and bonuses, as well as rental income, in calculating how much a Rhode Island National Guardsman owes in support to the mother of the 5-year-old daughter he fathered in an extramarital affair.

The decision, authored by Justice Maureen McKenna Goldberg, chided O’Brien for conducting much of the discussion about the case without a stenographer in chambers, “leading to a confusing and incomplete record.” Although many judges conduct off-the-record conferences, “we consistently have condemned this practice,” Goldberg wrote.

The court also was highly critical of O’Brien — who’s sat on the Family Court since 1974 — for making improper remarks about the mother’s daycare provider whom he said he would not permit to testify — or make the father of the child pay for — based on representations about her immigration status. The father alleged that she was being paid under the table and not reporting her income to the IRS.

“We know of no law or court rule that requires a witness to prove his or her legal status or compliance with federal tax laws as a condition precedent to testifying in our courts,” the high court said.

Former Chief Judge Jeremiah S. Jeremiah Jr. affirmed O’Brien’s rulings on the military pay and child-care issues. The Supreme Court said he erred in doing so.

The parties in the case are Cesar Tamayo, who in 2005 fathered a child with Paula Arroyo. The couple, from Pawtucket, never married. Tamayo is wed to someone else.

In 2007, Tamayo filed a petition seeking to establish custody, visitation and child support. In a counterclaim, Arroyo sought sole custody of their daughter, medical insurance, child support, plus reimbursement for past and future daycare.

Tamayo works as a civilian military technician for the National Guard and is also in the National Guard Reserve for which he gets extra pay, a little more than $400 a month. In addition to his base salary he received a one-time $4,131 bonus in 2007 and regular “locality adjustment payments,” the equivalent of a housing allowance, over $13,000 per year. There was also evidence that he received $1,350 per month in rental income though he claimed in a 2006 tax return that he suffered a loss of nearly $18,000 from the properties he owned.

Arroyo testified about her daughter’s daycare expenses and tried to have her child-care provider testify. But when Tamayo “suggested that defendant’s daycare provider might have been paid in cash — which was unreported income — and that she may be in the United States illegally, the magistrate refused to allow the witness to testify without first producing immigration documents and tax returns,” said Goldberg.

“There’s no way [Tamayo is] paying someone who is not reporting income and [who is] receiving it under the table,” O’Brien declared.

Goldberg said that “when the witness failed to return to court with these documents,” the magistrate drew an inference that she was ‘cheating the government.’ He therefore refused to order” the father to reimburse the mother for past or future daycare expenses [which Tamayo said his wife and mother could provide for free.]

This was “a clear abuse of discretion,” Goldberg wrote.

Karen Auclair Oliveira, the lawyer for the child’s mother, said in an interview that her client works as a $432-a-week certified nursing assistant and currently pays $160 a week for daycare. She now uses a licensed daycare provider, Oliveira said.

Tamayo originally paid the mother $300 a month in support but has voluntarily upped that to $480 a month, Oliveira said. The court never set an exact amount that he’s required to pay so part of the reason the case is being sent back to O’Brien is for him to determine a set amount.

The new amount will be retroactive to March 2007 and will have to include partial reimbursement for past daycare if it’s found to be reasonable, future daycare and military entitlement and bonus pay.

The state’s Office of Child Support Services (OCSS) filed a friend-of-the-court brief in the matter, urging the Supreme Court to overturn’s O’Brien. Child support should be based “not just on the income of the parents but their financial resources,” wrote Frank DiBiase, chief legal counsel for OCSS.

Upholding O’Brien would “create inequities in future cases,” DiBiase said. Other appellate courts in the US that have considered the military allowance issue in recent years have ruled that it should be counted as parental income when calculating child support.

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If you have questions about this posting or are interested in Divorce, Immigration, or Estate Law in RI or MA contact Massachusetts and Rhode Island Divorce Lawyer Rui P. Alves at 401-942-3100 or CONTACT him via email.

Friday, April 8, 2011

Getting a Divorce in RI for Free

As in most states, in RI there are provisions for married couples who would like to divorce, but do not have the money to hire an attorney. Although it is always advisable to hire an attorney to counsel you, whether you elect to have them join you in court or not, there are ways to make the financial burden less painful to begin with.

If you and your spouse are in agreement about the marital property, this property consists of little more than your personal effects and perhaps a house, and there are no children of the marriage, you can prepare your own documents for the filing of the divorce. The court will require that you follow certain procedures, and that you pay a filing fee, before you are given a court date.

Attending court without an attorney, you may have to wait longer for your case to be heard, and you will definitely be required to respond to direct questions from the Judge. In addition, once your case has been heard, there will be paperwork that needs to be filed afterward. If you fail to file this paperwork on time, your divorce will not only fail to be finalized, but you will need to file a Motion to get permission to file the paperwork late or, out of time.

The divorce process, while not overly difficult, still presents significant challenges to most people, even with an attorney. However, if you are considering handling your own divorce, seek the advice of a qualified family law attorney first.
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If you have questions about this posting or are interested in Divorce, Immigration, or Estate Law in RI or MA contact Massachusetts and Rhode Island Divorce Lawyer Rui P. Alves at 401-942-3100 or CONTACT him via email.

What Happens to Children Emotionally During Divorce

Parents are very often too wrapped up in their own troubles and pain to notice what their children might be experiencing during a divorce proceeding. For children, the emotions experienced during the divorce may range from frustration and anger, depression and sadness, to indifference.

Immediately, parents begin to think about discipline when their child shows signs of anger or aggression, when what is most needed is understanding, compassion, and perhaps some outside intervention in the form of therapy. A counselor can offer the child a safe and uninvolved perspective and haven for expressing their emotions in a healthy way and working through them. Child therapists are adept at dealing with the many emotional disturbances caused by divorce, and can offer a viable alternative when speaking with your child yourselves yields no result.

Although the therapist can and should be utilized however, it is still up to the parents to continually reassure the child about the changes that will happen in their life. Finding the time to support your children emotionally, and reassure them that they will not be alone while discussing those things that will change for them directly, will go a long way toward healing any trauma caused by the fracture of the family.

Children can become seriously depressed over the break-up of the family unit. In particular if they have nothing to base the sudden parting on in terms of anger between their parents. This is seen most often in situations where the parents will try to hide their arguments from the children and pretend that everything is okay. While the children invariably know that everything is not 'okay', they are typically content and feel safe enough that the adults will work through their differences, because they see no outward signs of discord.

Feeling guilty about your decision is also detrimental studies say, adding to the guilt the child already feels since most children believe initially that their parents divorce is because of something that they did or did not do themselves. Speak to a professional therapist, in addition to an experienced family law attorney, if you or your spouse are considering divorce and have children living at home.
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If you have questions about this posting or are interested in Divorce, Immigration, or Estate Law in RI or MA contact Massachusetts and Rhode Island Divorce Lawyer Rui P. Alves at 401-942-3100 or CONTACT him via email.